alyssa arasawa: guys have it worse
guys have it worse
just because girls say what they feel on tumblr with quotes like “I hate trying to live up to your expectations” doesn’t mean guys don’t feel that way too. i feel bad for guys, they have to deal with our shit, and if they don’t, we call them douchebags or jerks. They have to try to live up to our huge expectations from movies or pictures/stories on tumblr. They have it worse then us, some girls can be a total bitch to the guy, and if for one moment, where a guy doesn’t do a simple text first, or the opening of a door, the whole world just ends. I mean come on, guys need just as much caring actions as we do.
girls expect too much and get disappointed in the end when they don’t get what they want. girls have this idea that guys have pay for everything, have the perfect abs, open every fucking door for them, always text first, be taller, be skinny, give them their jacket when they are cold, ask a her out or to a dance in an extra-extravagant way, and just be perfect.
girls know what that kind of pressure that is like, because it’s as much pressure on one side as the other. when a guy does that, he is being a gentleman. so don’t complain when he forgets, because no one is fucking perfect